We have 936 weeks with our children from when they are born until they turn 18. How we spend each of those weeks will shape their future.
We read the blogs, articles, statists, and research. The numbers are alarming, to say the very least.
Research shows that between nine months old and two years, children spend 912 hours in front of a screen. That’s nearly 5 and a half waking weeks.
From 3 to 7 years old, they spend nearly 37 waking weeks with a digital device.
From 8 to 12 years old, they spend 10,950 hours, that’s 65 waking weeks, staring at a screen.
And then from 13 years old until 18, they spend an additional 98 waking weeks transfixed on a screen.
It all adds up to 205 waking weeks with our children that we are giving away. Rather, that we are throwing away.
The numbers are alarming. Yet reading them, I come time and time again to this one thought: The last thing any of us parents need is guilt.
Rather, we need hope. And inspiration. And practical ideas for reclaiming this time. We need to know that we are not powerless.
Screens are stealing childhoods. They are robbing us of our legacies. And they are threatening our families. And we are the ones lowering our guard and giving them the upper hand in this battle. But not any more.
As Gary Chapman puts it in his book, Growing Up Social:
“It takes effort to switch from the convenience of screen time to an interactive or tactile activity for a child. But the benefits of your son’s or daughter’s development are well worth it. You will be pleasantly surprised at how quickly your child adjusts to new screen-free routines.”
Inconvenience is a small price to pay when it comes to redeeming childhoods and protecting families. I’d say a few temper tantrums or meltdowns is well worth the victory in this battle.
Join my family in coming weeks as we share practical ideas through our own stories and video blogs, as well as giveaways, to help spread hope and inspiration for reclaiming the 205 weeks before they are gone.