I didn’t know a single soul. New to town and desperate for friendship, I joined the Newcomer’s Club. I went in hopes of finding a kindred spirit, instead I met women eager to climb the social ladder. Rather than finding companionship I was met with competition. Perfectly manicured women wearing the latest swag, talking about Caribbean cruises and which hot tub to install were not usually in my circle of friends.

They invited me to parties at the country club, and to join the Junior League, which definitely left me feeling out of my league. I found myself comparing our simple lifestyle to theirs, and coveting their seemingly glamorous lives. I had a feeling that this circle was not where my heart was going to find the vulnerable, raw, kindred spirits of motherhood that I was in desperate need of.

Then I was invited to MOPS: Mothers of Preschoolers, and I found my sweet spot. Gathering with women in comfy clothes and naked nails brought a sense of belonging. Finding a place where I could be myself and fully embrace our family decision to bypass the fast track brought satisfaction and peace. Trading hot tubs and expensive vacays for my man to be home every night was the right price to pay for our family.

There was an invitation to study the Bible with other moms. And with that invite came the discovery that kindred spirits could be found where the Holy Spirit draws hearts together. Motherhood provides that perfect meeting ground. Maybe you know the same kind of women, the ones you do life side-by-side with, the ones you come to know Jesus next to. Hold them dear.

Cheering each other on in our mothering moments, we shared our lives, and my own faith grew. Slowly I came to know Jesus in ways I hadn’t known Him before– in personal ways.

He was a Rock that I could build my faith upon. He was a strong tower, and I could run to him for safety in the storms of life. He was also a Good Shepherd, and I was beginning to love being his lamb.

Isaiah 40:11 says:

“He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young.”

Right there, shoulder to shoulder with fellow mamas braving tantrums and sleepless nights, I could hear the sweet whispers of God’s Word, and discover how to apply it to motherhood. It’s where I saw Psalm 23 in a whole new light.

Psalm 23 for Moms

 

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want another mom’s life.

He encourages me to lay down my unrealistic expectations.

He leads me beside other moms to encourage and inspire me.

He guides me through adversity so I can trust Him.

Even though I walk through the valley of laundry and toys,

I will fear no inadequacy or insecurity; for You are with me,

Your Word and your Spirit speak truth and comfort me.

You prepare circumstances to draw me close to you, in the presence of my doubt and fears.

You anoint my heart with joy as you fill me with Your Spirit, my cup overflows.

Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my mothering and I will dwell in Your house of grace forever.